85% there?

I know, I know! I'm SUCH a slacker! It's been so much busier now that Kayden is off the ventilator, not that I'm complaining :) I worked all day yesterday, came to the hospital and didnt get to bed until 1:00am, so forgive me for not updating :) 

Respiratory speaking Kayden is doing amazing. He hasn't had any problems with oxygen, respiratory rate, or heart rate in days. Our biggest focus is now on eating and gaining weight. He has lost weight the past 2 days, even though he is eating every 3 hours, and they have been fortifying my breast milk. Interesting... And a little concerning. I think a bit of the problem was the withdrawing from sedation, a bit from being intubated for so long, and bit because his gag reflex is very sensitive. We altered which nipple flow we are using for his bottles, and I'm not nursing for now (still pumping). So he is getting pumped milk, with added calories. By strictly using a bottle I feel it's consistent for him and we can really monitor his intake. Also, instead of feeding every 3 hours, we are trying every 2. I think once he starts to gain weight, we can finally go home! 

Speaking of home, Ben and I wrapped some of the kids gifts last night. I'm really starting to look forward to Christmas. Max is very excited and has been such a good kiddo through all of this. He really loves all of his family, and has even enjoyed visiting them all a little more frequently then normal. 

We will see ear, nose & throat tomorrow and they will make sure there is no further swelling in his airway. My sister, Stacey is coming home for Christmas a little early to help us out. She will be here Tuesday and I am so anxious for that. Still praying for us to all be home for Christmas, I'm not giving up on that yet <3

Loving & missing my boys at home tonight, but thankful to be sleeping in Kaydens room :)

With all our love, 

Melissa & Kayden